"Jay Stokes" being late to set of The Apocalypse...(According to Doris) staring Jaime Gomez

message to fellow actors/actresses don't be late to set

CATEGORIZING EACHOTHER

there is a lot of things i hear and see daily from people that makes me want to address this topic of categorizing eachother.

it seems People treat others based on already known sterotypes they've developed thru life….its safe and convenient in ways to deal with some people in this type of way because it may keep the snakes, fake people, lames, or whatever you want to say distant enough to be safe enough from getting played, hurt, use them to make the time go by, or whatever reason. So, just as most things in life there's pros and cons. But what about the people everyone seems to desire or search for?...like that special someone....that best friend...that favorite relatvie...that best person who understands blah blah blah. By categorizing people due to what i call window shopper ways meaning people just see what they choose to see and using their own built knowledge to label that acceptable to their ways or whatever. That’s not how u get to know a person we are all individuals but it takes time to respect that...and although some folks tend to just be okay with just coping with their life however it is.

people at times get treated mostly because of a perceived external worth. Whether a person is high, medium, or low profile It seems to me that most feel they know a person because of what they see or believe….well even the word beLIEve has contains a lie.

lack of information available to learn about a person leads to someone to draw up their own thought of you. For example, High profile people get seen at events, on television, posters, and movies, so on and so on in a glamorous way. This occurs to where the “window shoppers” on the outside looking feel these people are mostly glamorous. So, it seems to me they have this image in their mind of that person being so fascinating that if they are with this person somehow that they too can feel this way and will in return possibly usually lessen their self-control to do so...ive been around those types enough to observe the relationship with the window shoppers the same shit differently with these folks while i play my cards right and pick up on how not to be when i get there . Window shoppers fail to see that these people have a personal life and other daily activities that have nothing to do with them being a character in life. It relates to diff people at all levels in life. Some people don’t think critically and ask questions on what outside influences in a person’s life make them act how they do.

this cud lead to people having probs with eachother for example some people argue due to differences of something or also because they fail to express who they really are in their mind to the person or people they interact with daily? Just because you’re a king or queen in your mind doesn’t meant a person can see that when all you do is….nada, but be lame…it’s a damn shame….this my first blog roll with me. But hey Some people argue over differences of something of thoughts, perceptions, ideals, e.t.c. I feel if people took time to really figure out who they are and how to express themselves interactions would more interesting.

Interacting with others in regards to their external value could also be interesting. it also seems much that we usually get treated due to how we are looked at which is pretty much common sense. But, in relationships couples sometimes relate to eachother in regards to formed categories they already have built thru their passed experiences in life all experieces not any specific; ones that make them think of people how they do.

When people say stayments similiar to expressing men are dogs and ladies are gold diggers; men are lazy, women are needy and the list goes on....that right there are some of the already built sterotypes that people assimilate others to, thats how people are influenced to be related to. If someone seems to be fit for those categories thats where they get put and treated for the time being. But, they really fail to understand that does not give them knowledge of who that single individiual is therefore they miss the concept of knowing the SELF. this will vary per person

we are the same creation that does the same shit differently on various levels but at the same time we are unique by society design so interpret on. I respect individuals but some people tend to fall in the generalized crowd it seems. I myself am still growing as a person in my case I don’t have many in-depth relationships with the ladies but cool ones I have been blessed with a few of those in-depth experiences though. Tends to be something im not that good at so far

ideal person that is intimate wit another is someone who is willing to assimilate and accommodate to get to know and to allow that other to do so to them. pretty much to go beyond treating each other though already known stereotype roles and to know that all individuals are complex. bein able to change urself to understand another is truly getting to know them but getting them to do the same is truly being intimate. and when or if their new developed knowledge they developed to take on the world gets violated that together will be able to adapt to change again if needed. Having a person of interest to be willing to do that with eliminating just coping with life and what it hands out but to get something worth having. because I believe that in order to get anything in life thats worth getting, whatever it is; one most likely has to learn how to adapt to the various changes in life when it comes knowingly and unknowingly. ...but in order to even get this you have to have to figure out how to get that person of interest interested enough in you to start that....good luck..... i dont know if that even made sense....cloud sittin

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